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Wednesday, October 21, 2020

Who is that masked man or woman?

 Living in the pandemic the wearing of face masks has become a normal act. They are lifesaving for many and a necessity for some.  They also have some down sides when trying to maintain social distancing and re-open or return to normal life.There are several facts that people in ministry or


working with the public in any capacity. should consider.


1.WITH A MASK ON FACIAL EXPRESSIONS ARE LOST.

I do so miss seeing a smiling face! We read so much in our communication by the lift of a lip or eyebrow to inform us as to the state of the other: are they grumpy, mad, tired, bored, happy? Who knows? I have fantasized about those old church-fans, the ones on sticks and made of paper, with a smile or word to express something beyond eyes above a piece of cloth and mumbled phrases.

2. WITH THE MASK ON WORDS ARE NOT CLEAR

The feedback to your own ears is such that you think you are speaking louder than you really are. The cloth captures and holds your words. One must speak louder, with greater attention to clarity and elecution but without sounding disgruntled or abrupt. A narrow and tricky path to trod that can be.


3.WITH THE MASK ON PEOPLE ARE ANNONYMOUS

Some introverts love the masks for that reason but for many others there is the feeling a large carton of rubber duckies have been dumped into a small pond and are bobbing around all looking exactly the same.  Name tags are helpful and for some a necessity. A name tag invites notice and says "I want to be seen as a person - an individual."


4. WITH THE MASK ON WE ARE ALL CLUELESS

With the attention and focus on social distancing there has been a pulling back of all types of connection.  Handshakes are often frowned on and close contact likewise. Close conversations at six feet are next to impossible!! The void should be filled with contact in other forms: phone calls, emails, Facebook pages, YouTube services.   The church newsletter, sent via email, is a perfect tool to keep connection in place, encourage people, and share life's joys and concerns.  Each small group should be seen as a focused ministry group and be actively ministering to the people in their circle. Each person a ripple in a large and ever expanding pool of ministry!

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Thursday, May 7, 2020

Opening the Church

Most churches stay closed all week long.  Open the church doors and invite people inside by developing a rotating reason for them to visit:

Open a prayer room. Leave a basket for notes to be left asking others to pray.

Organize an art display of local church or community artists around a devotional theme. The images do not have to be of religious subjects but images that reflect a theme of the devotion (hope, joy, love, etc.). Invite people to place penny votes for each piece of art and funds raised go to a local charitable cause.

Establish a "stations of the Cross" style pray journey with visual, sound and tactile objects to move through the cycles of the Christian year.


Organize a Mission or Outreach into the community work day to
- prepare or organize foods for blessings boxes
- pack or distribute sack lunches to shut in's -
- organize games to go (rotating board games - make sure all can be cleansed)
- reading bags (a washable bag and washable toy with a books suitable for children to read alone or read to a sibling, a Top it Off (baseball caps in the spring and summer and stocking caps in fall and winter) give away or pick up station....
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Monday, March 30, 2020

Using ZOOM to connect



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Sunday, March 29, 2020

A Lenten Journey

A few years ago I did this video while attending Barnard Memorial Church in Holdenville, Ok. In the 1980's a set of talented church people had painted these large and impressive images to illustrate the scenes of Christ on his journey to the Cross and Beyond.  We set them up, invited the community and then experienced something a little different that Lenten season. Now, given the special times and situations, it seemed timely to share it once more.





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Friday, March 27, 2020

IDEAS FOR BLESSING IN A CHALLENGING TIME

Ideas from the Board of Laity, OKUMC. Blessing Ideas; BoL Friends,

"Ideas that might be useful, especially those of us that feel like we need to be helping others in a time when that is a real challenge.

Our daily blessing checklist
By Janey Thomas
This is an opportunity to leave your home for a short period of time. This allows you some time to get some sunshine and fresh air. We are not encouraging you to leave your vehicle. Stay safe & stay healthy.
Sunday:
-watch online church with your family.
-play a board game with your family.
Monday:
-go to your local courthouse; pray for your local leaders as well as our state, nation and world leaders.
-leave a friendly note on your neighbors’ front porch.
Tuesday:
-go to your local hospital; pray for the medical teams.
-call someone you see only on Sunday at church. Check on them.
Wednesday:
-go to your local school; pray for administration, staff, faculty and students who are now experiencing distance learning.
-sit outside, be still and listen. What do you hear?
Thursday:
-Consider a local nursing home; pray for the staff and the patients; , especially as loved ones aren’t able to visit them at this time.
-send a card to a loved one.
Friday:
-go to a local restaurant; pray for the owners, management and the workers, especially in these hard times.
-ask yourself: where have you seen God this week?
Saturday:
-drive by your church and pray for your pastor, your staff, the Oklahoma United Methodist Conference Bishop-Jimmy Nunn and our Oklahoma Annual Conference.
-invite someone new to join you tomorrow online to watch your church.
From Maurice Hawthorne
We have been told to wash our hands thoroughly to keep disease spread to a minimum and protect ourselves. It has been recommended to wash with soap and water for at least 20 seconds and to judge the time by singing "Happy Birthday" through once (or more recently - twice).
An alternate suggestion is to sing the Doxology to help time the washing, and it will remind us who really is in charge, AND to praise Him at the same time.
Doxology: Praise God, from whom all blessings flow; praise him, all creatures here below; praise him above, ye heavenly host; praise Father, Son, and Holy Ghost. Amen
*You will need to sing it twice to achieve the 40 seconds wash time.
Chuck Stewart



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Sunday, March 15, 2020

A Prayer


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Emergency Preparedness: Anxiety-Calming Scriptures


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Wednesday, February 12, 2020

BALANCING THE LABOR: Reimagining Roles and Responsibilities (Editorial)


There was once a cartoon depicting everyone's favorite pastor (it was before political correctness and so it was a man) and the pastor was split right down the middle: One one side his hair was high and tight and the other side it was trendy and brushed his collar in a casual style. One side he wore a full suit with tie and the other side he wore casual slacks and shirt. In one hand he carried a massively thick Bible and in the other a book titled, Engaging Illustrations for Living Life.  The goal of the cartoon was to illustrate that finding a perfect pastor can be difficult because no two people may have the same kind of pastor in mind. In our buffet style church we can become a little too focused on individual preferences and view preaching, worship, music, etc. as we would entertainment instead of a community activity to draw us closer to one another and closer to God.

As a result, I believe, the "job description" in the Book of Discipline has grown - not logically or efficiently - but in response to all those competing concepts of what a pastor should do.

When we examine, however, that list of responsibilities and duties of Elders and Local Pastors, we get a hint as to why clergy can be so burned out, why laity can be under involved, and where the base problem in many churches may rest. We have taken all the work of the church and developed an expectation that the Pastor has to do all the work associated with ministry in the church. In short, we have created a system in which the clergy (elder or local Pastor) have had dumped on them their own tasks as a pastor but also the tasks that should be either a) the work of the laity or b) shared with the laity for greatest corporate missional effectiveness and efficiency.

I have highlighted in yellow in this list the areas  I feel are those that should be shared or done by the laity in a church.  Some things should be down as a common task off ALL those in a church, some should be under the leadership of the pastor, and some laity should claim as their area of ministry.



Book of Discipline: ¶ 340. Responsibilities and Duties of Elders and Local Pastors  (The Book of Discipline of The United Methodist Church -- 2016






¶ 340. Responsibilities and Duties of Elders and Licensed Pastors-
Four general areas : 1) Word and Ecclesial Acts; b) Sacraments ; c) Order ; d) Service
 
a) Word and ecclesial acts:
(1) To preach the Word of God, lead in worship, read and teach the Scriptures, and engage the people in study and witness. (a) To ensure faithful transmission of the Christian faith.
(b) To lead people in discipleship and evangelistic outreach that others might come to know Christ and to follow him.
(2)To counsel persons with personal, ethical, or spiritual struggles.
(3)To perform the ecclesial acts of marriage and burial.
(a) To perform the marriage ceremony after due counsel with the parties involved and in accordance with the laws of the state and the rules of The United Methodist Church. The decision to perform the ceremony shall be the right and responsibility of the pastor.
(b) To conduct funeral and memorial services and provide care and grief counseling. (Primarily because we do not view funerals as sacrament)
(4)To visit in the homes of the church and the community, especially among the sick, aged, imprisoned, and others in need.

(5) To maintain all confidences inviolate, including confessional confidences except in the cases of suspected child abuse or neglect, or in cases where mandatory reporting is required by civil law.

b) Sacrament:
(1) To administer the sacraments of baptism and the Supper of the Lord according to Christ's ordinance.
(a) To prepare the parents and sponsors before baptizing infants or children, and instruct them concerning the significance of baptism and their responsibilities for the Christian training of the baptized child.
(b) To encourage reaffirmation of the baptismal covenant and renewal of baptismal vows at different stages of life.
(c) To encourage people baptized in infancy or early childhood to make their profession of faith, after instruction, so that they might become professing members of the church.
(d) To explain the meaning of the Lord's Supper and to encourage regular participation as a means of grace to grow in faith and holiness.
(e) To select and train deacons and lay members to serve the consecrated communion elements.
(2) To encourage the private and congregational use of the other means of grace.

c) Order:
(1) To be the administrative officer of the local church and to assure that the organizational concerns of the congregation are adequately provided for.
(a) To give pastoral support, guidance, and training to the lay leadership, equipping them to fulfill the ministry to which they are called.
(b) To give oversight to the educational program of the church and encourage the use of United Methodist literature and media.
(c) To be responsible for organizational faithfulness, goal setting, planning and evaluation.
(d) To search out and counsel men and women for the ministry of deacons, elders, local pastors and other church related ministries. (Since this area is already listed as part of the SPRC list of goals already)
(2)To administer the temporal affairs of the church in their appointment, the annual conference, and the general church.
(a) To administer the provisions of the Discipline.
(b) To give an account of their pastoral ministries to the charge and annual conference according to the prescribed forms.
(c) To provide leadership for the funding ministry of the congregation. To ensure membership care including compliance with charitable giving documentation requirements and to provide appropriate pastoral care, the pastor, in cooperation with the financial secretary, shall have access to and responsibility for professional stewardship of congregational giving records.
(d) To model and promote faithful financial stewardship and to encourage giving as a spiritual discipline by teaching the biblical principles of giving.
(e) To lead the congregation in the fulfillment of its mission through full and faithful payment of all apportioned ministerial support, administrative, and benevolent funds.
(f) To care for all church records and local church financial obligations, and certify the accuracy of all financial, membership, and any other reports submitted by the local church to the annual conference for use in apportioning costs back to the church.
(3)To participate in denominational and conference programs and training opportunities.
(a) To seek out opportunities for cooperative ministries with other United Methodist pastors and churches.

(b) To be willing to assume supervisory responsibilities within the connection.
(4) To lead the congregation in racial and ethnic inclusiveness.

d) Service;
(1) To embody the teachings of Jesus in servant ministries and servant leadership.
(2) To give diligent pastoral leadership in ordering the life of the congregation for discipleship in the world.
(3) To build the body of Christ as a caring and giving community, extending the ministry of Christ to the world.
(4) To participate in community, ecumenical and interreligious concerns and to encourage the people to become so involved and to pray and labor for the unity of the Christian community.

From The Book of Discipline of The United Methodist Church - 2016. Copyright 2016 by The United Methodist Publishing House. Used by permission.


See - how much more balanced that is?  How it sets up a relationship between Pastor and Laity that involves both, assigns responsibilities to both, and gives clear guidance to goals and purpose for both as they work TOGETHER to a common goal - the mission of the church.

Everyone is to be in ministry - to achieve that - maybe we should address the barriers in thinking, traditions, habits, and inclination to just have the 'hired person" do it all. That, however, is not the picture of the church in scripture.

An excellent resource is "Identifying and Sustaining Effective Clergy Leadership" a document of the Board of Ordained Ministry of the Oklahoma Annual Conference. (Oklahoma Annual Conference, UMC, 1501 NW 24th Street, OKC, OK 73106).. It focuses on clergy effectiveness by defining them in reference to three areas: Living Discipleship Fruitfulness; Leading Congregational Fruitfulness; and Developing Missional Fruitfulness.  Instead of a "refrigerator list" behaviors the areas are grouped into more mission oriented objectives.  There is also a page on the role of the District Superintendent and it includes a checklist of flags for "ineffective clergy." 

In reviewing that, it struck this writer that a similar list might be a good self-evaluation tool for a church as it considered its own role in the whole larger process of mission and ministry.

As such the following might be questions a church might explore annually:
Has the congregation lost its sense of mission and purpose?
Have it lost interest in deep, challenging sermons and studies?
Has it lost the capacity or interest in reaching people for Christ?
Has it lost the ability to demonstrate leadership among the people?
Has it lost the ability to deal with conflict or does it merely acquiesce to the conflict's major voices?
H as it lost the ability and willingness to work to achieve the goals and mission of the church?


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Wednesday, January 1, 2020

A TRADITIONAL START TO THE NEW YEAR


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Changes in recent years now mean that ANYONE may take an ADVANCED COURSE or the BASIC COURSE before committing to become a formally recognized CERTIFIED LAY SERVANT.

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1) Talk to Local pastor and Take the Basic Course
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1) Talk to pastor
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Those who find they want to go even further can consider the process of becoming a Certified Lay Minister. This requires larger amounts of study from specific blocks of subject matter, more interviews and a little longer time frame. Talk to your pastor, contact your District Lay Servant Ministries person and pray to see where God might be leading you.

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